Alt Spirit
Alt Spirit
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Embracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacred

Embracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacredEmbracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacredEmbracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacredEmbracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacred

Are you trying to reconcile different aspects of yourself; your sexuality and spirituality? Are you seeking kink affirming space to be your authentic self? Are you seeking to further explore sacred sexuality?

Start Your Journey

Embracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacred

Embracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacredEmbracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacredEmbracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacredEmbracing all aspects of sexuality and spirituality as sacred

Are you trying to reconcile different aspects of yourself; your sexuality and spirituality? Are you seeking kink affirming space to be your authentic self? Are you seeking to further explore sacred sexuality?

Start Your Journey
Diverse hands, holding space

Different in a good way

You are beautiful. You are whole. 


Alternative lifestyles can be exhilarating, freeing, and so much fun. The experience of sacred sexuality can also be lonely, overwhelming, and confusing. It can be challenging to explore sexuality and spirituality as there is a lot of discouragement in many conventional spaces. 


"Kink can be spiritual. By reclaiming and ritualizing their erotic lives and desires, individuals can transform guilt and shame into empowerment, embracing a more authentic and integrated self."     - Lee Harrington, Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Path of BDSM and Beyond (2016)

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Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach out (below) if you cannot find an answer to your question.

Alt-Spirit is intended to evoke alternative and creative approaches to spirituality. We do not expect or espouse any specific religion, creed, or practice and are supportive of all identities.


Alt-Spirit is a spiritual direction support specifically knowledgeable and affirming of individuals' unique sexual preferences, including those related to kink and non-traditional sexual dynamics. It goes beyond mere tolerance, aiming to create a safe and validating space where clients can explore and discuss their kink-related experiences, boundaries, and connection to the Divine without fear of judgment or shame. 

Spiritual direction is the art of deep listening. holding space, and bearing witness. Also called spiritual companion or spiritual counselor, they journey with you with you as you navigate life's complexities and transitions. Spiritual counselors are trained to help their clients explore more profound levels of awareness to gain insight into their lives. Through supported activities, exercises, and conversations, a person can calm anxiety and shame while also gaining clarity around what brings them joy. 


The aspects of kink and sexuality integrate with spiritual direction approaches well to provide space and support to align your sexual preferences and experiences with your overall being. Evolving into your full kinky self often involves experimentation and processing experiences to glean lessons to fully lean into the realization of self.

You can book an appointment with Alt Spirit by clicking the red button above. It will take you to our scheduling portal.

An initial virtual chat will give us some time to meet one another, go over the boundaries we both agree to, reiterate confidentiality, and set the tone for our time together. I am generally very comfortable with explicit language and you are free to expound as you would like without worry of offense or shame. Nudity is not appropriate.

We can meet at the cadence that works for you.

Yes, we plan to offer group sessions and will organize these around topics/roles as that makes sense. Please join our friends list and give some idea of what interests you.

Unfortunately, the nature of deep listening requires some honest interaction. However, we can use your Fet username or other alternative name if that is more comfortable for you. I will reiterate the absolute confidentiality that is part of this relationship. If this still feels too scary for you, it may be a sign that you are not yet ready to delve deeply into the sexual/kink aspects. I will offer a less intense option, Actuate Spirit, which may be more aligned with where you are in your spiritual journey. Consent is paramount so do what feels affirming for you.

About Me

Vanilla Me

I've worked in some of America's most beloved companies for more than two decades working in leadership development, operations, HR, and Tech. Trained as an engineer, I like to approach problem solving holistically and collaboratively. 


I've had a non traditional religious upbringing which has made me very open minded about how one finds spiritual sustenance. 

Kinky Me

My journey to sacred sexuality has been circuitous. I have dated non traditionally for two decades and have experienced the kink community first hand. I have been active in many virtual kink communities and navigated groups, power exchange, and experimented a lot to learn what I enjoy and connects me to the Divine. Sexuality is a key component of our humanity and is an integral aspect of spirituality.  


I have lived a compartmentalized life, keeping all the worlds separate. Navigating vanilla and kink aspects of myself is easy on most days, and utterly exhausting on others.

Our Approach

I longed for a kink affirming space to debrief scenes, declare a new thing I'd learned about myself, and grieve when I'd been mistreated. Because I knew the background explanation would take a long time and I'd have to give so much thought to word choice, I typically just held it in. 


You don't have to. I'm here to listen and sit with you as you discover your own sacred sexuality.


Without judgment. Confidentially. Affirming all of who you are.

It´s time we saw sex as the truly sacred art that it is. A deep meditation, a holy communion and a dance with the force of creation.

Marcus Allen

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We love feedback so let me know what would be helpful for you. 


BIPOC Affirming  |  LGBTQ+ Affirming  |  Kink Affirming


Bring your whole self and you will be held with care.

Alt-Spirit Spiritual Direction

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